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Our Lady of the Angels (OLA) School Fire, December 1, 1958
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Personal Experiences with Our Lady of the Angels School Fire

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Posted by: SandyD On: 2/19/2003 ID: 68
At OLA on 12/1/58? Born before or after 12/1/58? Where Lived on 12/1/58?
No Before 510 N. Monticello
I was 7 years old at that time of the fire...I went to Ryerson,I had friends that lived by me on monticello, I lived at 510 N. Monticello at the time...I forward the rest to friends I still keep in touch with from back in the 60's about this site...& reports, now 40 something years later we are talking about it....

after reading the stories I too realize I had good friends that went to this school, OLA, they NEVER talked about it !!! I have a friend her name was DeeDee Della, her brother Frank, was burned over a good part of his body,I do remember hearing he jumped from the second floor. I saw a few scars that couldn't be covered up by his shirt or pants, but they NEVER talked about it !!!

We came from of time I guess we were told to be seen and not heard, what is a child that couldn't speak all these years have to endure, with prayer and talk sometimes heals but if we are forced to act as if nothing happened how much suffering you had....now I realize what you had to be going through....I will never be able to know...only you do...but I will say, we are here for you...maybe with the chats, we will never erase your hurt but we can help the healing process....please email me anytime....if anyone knows where DeeDee or her brother Frank Della is please let then know I would love to hear from them....Bless you all...Love Sandy


Posted by: Joanne Pettenon Peele On: 2/17/2003 ID: 67
Enrolled on 12/1/58? Present on 12/1/58? Injured? Age Grade Classroom Teacher
Yes Yes No 12 7 201? ?
My name is Joanne Pettenon Peele now and on December 1, 1958 I was in seventh grade. My classroom was in the south wing of the school on the second floor. We were having a singing class and realized that the children across the court were hanging out of their windows waiving and screeming that the school was on fire. We immediately lined up in single file and headed for the smoke filled corridor and made our way down the staircase to the front entrance. Once we were out, I remember frantically looking for my sister, my brother, and my cousins Janice and George Pomilia. I did not see any of my family members at that time and I will never forget how I felt at that moment. On my way home after stopping at my godmother’s house on Lawndale & Iowa I ran into my mother and my aunt who were Christmas shopping that day. My mother was nine months pregnant. They went to the school looking for the other children and came home with no one. My brother, John Pettenon and cousin Janice Pomilia were at a relative who lived on Trumbull Ave. where we all lived, who also had children in the school, The Bertucci’s. Mary Ellen and George were still missing. Later on that evening our house was filled with relatives from all over Chicago and my mother started having labor pains. I will never forget my father, who in those days did not have a radio in his car, came home from his construction job to hear that his Mary Ellen was missing. My cousin George was found in Walter Memorial Hospital with a broken leg from his jump from his classroom window. He was in fifth grade. My father then had to take my mother to the hospital knowing that we had not found my sister. Later on that evening Mr. Pawlik from across the street who was the father of my best friend Eileen Pawlik came over to tell us that she was gone…he found her at the morgue. The next day my uncle Joe went to the morgue and found my sister, Mary Ellen Pettenon. He was the only one that saw her after the fire.

My poor parents were at the hospital waiting for a baby when our family doctor went to tell them about Mary Ellen. My mother’s labor had stopped and she was able to return home for the funeral arrangements and services. The day after the funeral she gave birth to a new baby girl and named her Marilyn. Needless to say, having a new baby in the house was a blessing. There is nothing like the comfort you get from a new born baby. It really helped all of us especially my mother. Marilyn has three children and just became a grandmother for the first time to a beautiful baby boy.

Going through all of this at the age of twelve, I thought that our life was over and that we would never have happy times again, but we all know that life goes on and you learn to endure. I admire my parents more than they know and I will never forget how they continued to be the wonderful parents that they are during the most difficult time of their life. To this day, my mom and dad are always there for us and our children.

I have been blessed with three wonderful children, Laura, Lisa, and Jimmy and five grandchildren. I know the love that a parent has for their children , but no one knows what it is like to lose a child unless you actually go through it. Some families lost more than one child in the fire.

In closing, I would like to say that I have read so much about what happened that day, other experiences that were shared, and the days that followed, I am surprised to hear the number of people that did not discuss the fire. My family did talk about the fire and I have through my entire life at least once a month, it comes up. It has been very frustrating for me since I have read part of the book “To Sleep With The Angels”. I read up to the chapter that was focused on my sister’s room 210 and couldn’t go on. I believe that all of the children could have been led out of the building if the adults that first became aware of the smoke acted immediately in the proper manner. I don’t understand why so much time had to pass before help was on it’s way. It was plain supidity as far as I am concerned. I was aware that the church and the city politians wanted this kept quiet for their own selfish reasons. I remember that not even a month had gone by and no one was talking about the fire. Again, I was only twelve years old, and I questioned why.

When someone would ask me where I grew up, or where did I go to school, or how many brothers and sisters do I have, I include my sister Mary Ellen. We I miss her very much and wish that she could have lived to experience being a mother and a grandmother like I have. She will never be forgotten. I have shared everything about Mary Ellen and the fire with my children and they will with theirs.


Posted by: taco On: 2/15/2003 ID: 66
At OLA on 12/1/58? Born before or after 12/1/58? Where Lived on 12/1/58?
No Before 4936wcortez
i was a first grader at our lady help of christians home sick with chicken pox. the phone rang about 2:50 pm it was my dad a pbx installer with il bell he had a large phone strapped to his tool belt he would climb poles and tap into phone lines during his repairs and often to our house,we had a party line and frequently he would call home to check on mom and thhe 5 of us. but on this day he tapped into a telephone line that went to a fire box in the area of ola. the phone call to my mother was different that day i was suppose to be napping but heard the phone ring,, thhe look on my mothers face is one i will never forget,then the tears flowed.. she ran to the tv and saw it unfold. thhe day seems like last week. we lived behiind st annes hospital,frequently we would attend mass there if the weather was bad.

i diid not see my father for 5 days,he would come home to clean up and have something too eat. i would hear my parents talking about the fire and the rising toll. my father was instrumenntal in adding new phone lines and service for the police fiiremen reporters and city editors. in those days there was only 1 phone on each floor of the hospital. my dad was a medic in ww2 and helped with the triaging of victims families and those in need. he attended many wakes and funerals for the victims. my uncle owned burke-sullivan funeral home on chicago ave. many of thhese families were assised with the costs by my dear uncle john sullivan. many of the children came to hoc after thhe fire, they were my classmates. i ppray dailly for these victims. may good bless you all. one day we will meet in heaven,till then terry o'connor janisch

taco71152@yahoo.com


Posted by: Angela Taglia Wehrs On: 2/15/2003 ID: 65
Enrolled on 12/1/58? Present on 12/1/58? Injured? Age Grade Classroom Teacher
Yes Yes No 10 5 105
My sister, in Rm 201, brother in RM 101 and I in 105 survived that terrible day. I remember everything as though it were yesterday. I walked out the front door and found my sister an hour later but only after the priests had asked us to leave the church where we went for safety and comfort, because we were dirty, soiled and we should go home. A number of us then went to the convent where the nuns told us to leave cause we were dirty, soiled and we should go home. Some of the kids with me were burned, soaked to the skin, cold, in shock, and as scared as I was. But we did as we were told and returned to the street because that's what good Catholic girls and boys did to obey.

I found my sister and brother, but lost my best friend Joanne Chiappetta and many others. I remember as did many of us, that we weren't encouraged to talk about it, didn't get counseling, and no one ever discussed how it happened, who was responsible. The boy who was suspected of starting the fire was in my room, and everyone I talk to says the whole school knew he was a prime suspect, but as always it was squelched. I sympathize with all the abused children who are now the subject of controversy in the church concerning molesting priests. The Roman Catholic church seems to have a blind spot when it comes to convicting or accusing their own. How sad, and how unfortunate for the victims of the atrocities.

I remember that when we went to Hay school while the new OLA was being built we weren't allowed to talk to the PUBLICS. Kids just like us, whose parents and teachers and administrators had given up the entire top floor of their buildings were still considered lepers, pagans, and we couldn't associate with or talk to them. I wonder now how diffently all of this would have been handled...counselors, therapists, investigations, litigations, and answers.

God knows we probably benefitted from all this in ways we can't measure, and I'm sure I'm stronger and a better person for having lived through it, but I wouldn't wish it on another human being. I thank God for my and my sibling's survival and regret that so many died for no reason except negligence, ignorance and stupidity.


Posted by: Betti Wasek (Marino) On: 2/14/2003 ID: 64
Enrolled on 12/1/58? Present on 12/1/58? Injured? Age Grade Classroom Teacher
Yes Yes No 7 2 104 Miss Herlihy (Garrett)
December 1 started like any other cold winter day. I recall having gone home for lunch that day and telling my mother that I didn't feel well and wanted to stay home. I also told her that I smelled smoke that morning. As I look back on it now it had to be garbage burning outside. No matter what, I was sent back to school after lunch. I don't remember much about that afternoon except about 2:30 I had asked my teacher, Miss Herlihy, if I could go to the washroom. She had asked if I could wait until I went home because school would be out soon. I could not and relunctantly she allowed me to go and sent me with another little girl. The washroom was located towards the back of the school and my room, 104 was in the front of the school. While in the bathroom we heard the fire alarm and wondered if someone had made a mistake and rang the wrong bell. The washroom filled with smoke not long after we heard the fire alarm. It was apparent it was no mistake. We ran out and all I could think of was my cousin Joey who was in 2nd grade too and that I wanted to find him. The one memory that haunts me to this day is that as I ran from room to room looking for him I saw a classroom full of children sitting in their desks like little soldiers and the sister stood in front and prayed the rosary. (The doors of the classrooms had windows in them). For a long time I thought I had imagined it but other kids had the same recollection as I did. I wondered why they were not running out of the smoke filled school. I never did find my cousin. I ran back to my room and tried to get my coat out of the cloak room but I was pushed out the front door without it into a line of kids filing into the church. There was so much confusion and then as he did everyday, my grandfather appeared. He tried to take me out of the line and the sister would not let me go. He told her..."I see her and I am taking her" and he put his overcoat and scarf on me and we went to where my little brother, Michael was told to stand until we got back and we went home. My grandmother and my pregnant mother were standing on our front porch, crying and watching the smoke, listening to the sirens and when we pulled up and my grandfather carried me out of the car, they thought I was burned or hurt. Luckily I was not physically injured. The mental scars would last a life time. My cousin was missing until midnight but was later found safe and sound in the homes along Avers Ave. His mom was pregnant too and both our moms gave birth 2 weeks later, earlier than they should have.

The days and weeks to follow were filled with so much sadness. Our neighborhood would never ever be the same. We lived at 631 N. Avers which was 3 blocks south of the school. Everyone knew everyone and relatives lived either next door, across the street or even in the same building. On any summer evening you would see families sitting outside on their porches waiting for the peanut man with his cart or the man with horse and carriage giving the kids a ride around the block for ten cents a ride. You could walk down Chicago Ave. and get an Italian lemonade or cookies from Ancona's bakery...all of that was gone. The sights and sounds were replaced with an eerie quiet and family and friends eventually moved away. On our street alone, the Sarno and Mele families lost children. We were never allowed to talk about what had happened. We could not watch anything on TV that had to do with the fire. Radios were turned off. Newspapers were thrown away. It was almost as if people thought if we didn't talk about it anymore, it would go away. It did not and never will.

I was bussed to John Hay and then eventually to Our Lady Help of Christians. None of us wanted to sit near the windows and really got pretty shook up when we had fire drills. We eventually went to the new OLA. I was in the 4th grade. By the 5th grade our family had moved and I finished my grade school days at HOC with my brother Michael.

I followed on my own in the newspaper when the fire was mentioned over the years. I remember when I was 16 working in the Jewel, Irene and her husband Gerry came to my check out counter and I was so excited. It was like seeing celebrities. I had cut out their wedding picture from the newspaper and was so happy for them. (They probably don't remember that). Irene's sister, Monica was one of my playmates and we were in the same grade.

Every December 1st was difficult for me. The news media would have a story every year. I would see it and cry and wonder when they would just let it go and let us heal. Even going to Queen of Heaven Cemetary to visit family gravesites it seemed the car would just steer itself to the OLA section. Over the years I bought Michelle McBride's book, The Fire that will not die and I just could not bring myself to read it and never have.

I am now married with 2 grown children and 3 granddaughters. Two of them are 7, the same age I was at the time of the fire. I look at them and see myself at that age and having gone through this horrible thing. We had no councelling, no one to talk to or anyone (even a relative) that would even listen. I now find comfort in knowing that if anything ever happened, (God forbid) my grandchildren would have professionals that would be sent to the schools immediately that they could talk to. My brother, Michael became a fireman and is now the Deputy Fire Chief in Elmwood Park. I am very proud of his accomplishemnts and he has gone to all the schools in his area to tell of that fateful day and why fire safety is so extremely important. He had asked me a few years ago if I would like to go to the Our Lady of the Angels Anniversary Mass and I did and I was so overwhelmed when I went back to the neighborhood and to the church. The Mass for me was the funeral I was never allowed to attend. I cried as each name was read and each candle was lit. We were invited to take a candle home and I took home the candle that said "survivors" on it and I cherish it and light it every year for both those lost and those of us that survived. I have since read "To Sleep with the Angels" and could not put it down. It was very well written. We went to every Mass after that until the statue was dedicated. That was the year my mother asked why Michael and I never invited her to go. I don't think either of us thought she would want to. We did take her and I walked with her around the church before the Mass and I know a million memories must have flooded back to her. She was married there, we were all baptized there and made our First Holy Communion there. This parish meant so much to so many people that for the longest time tried to forget everything about it. After the Mass, the Memorial was dedicated in the school vestibule. We went inside, walked around and we even bought a few more copies of the book "To Sleep with the Angels". The next morning my mother suffered a paralyzing stroke. She told me she was very upset and stayed up late looking at the book. From that moment on December 1 took on a new meaning and I had wondered if she would have had the stroke even if she didn't go to the Mass. I guess it was God's way of giving me something else to be concerned about and to try and put the fire back in the past.

I watched the Channel 11 story twice. I thought it was a well told story. I was taken by Charlene's story (I don't think I could have been that brave) and by the gal (I am sorry I have forgotten her name)that said she was told that "we were not good enough to go to heaven that day" and a lot of kids lived with that feeling of "not being good enough..." all these years. I believe things happen for a reason. Our school was named Our Lady of the Angels. Angels are exactly what went to heaven that day. I wish it hadn't been in such a horrific way but that is how it happened. God needed those "angels". WE on the other hand WERE good enough to go...it was just not our time to go. He had other plans for us. Maybe some of us became doctors and saved a life. Maybe some of us fought for our country, maybe some of us are still doing whatever it is we were put on this earth to do. I wish all that perished would have had those same opportunities but it was God's will and we will never know until we are all together someday in Heaven. I am not extremely religious but that is just what I believe. I think the special awakened a lot of memories for a lot of people. It gave my children a better understanding of what happened that day and why my heart breaks every December 1. No matter how old we were that day...we will never forget. I am so sorry to those who lost children.

I had always hoped Father Joe would be at the Masses or even say the Mass. It would have been a comfort to me to see him. I have met so many people over the years that were in the fire and some of them are very close friends. It is a bond, no matter how young or old we were at the time, will hold us together forever.

Thank you Channel 11 for telling our story and allowing me this time to tell mine.

Betti Marino Wasek


Posted by: Janice Pellettiere On: 2/13/2003 ID: 63
Enrolled on 12/1/58? Present on 12/1/58? Injured? Age Grade Classroom Teacher
Yes Yes No 7 2 102 ?
My name is Janice Pellettiere. My maiden name is Pomilia. I was in 2nd grade at OLA at the time of the fire. It's hard to believe and I can't figure out why it still feels wrong talking about what happened. We also never talked about it. I lived on Trumbull Ave. and was growing up on the same block with both my mother and father's family. We were a large Italian family with four sets of aunts and uncles, grandparents and close to twenty cousins. Cousins who were more like brothers and sisters. We would run across the street in our pajamas to have breakfast together. At the time of the fire I had a cousin in every grade from kindergarten thru 5th and one in 7th at OLA. We lived eight blocks from school and most of the time walked to school. I can still hear my mother calling out to my cousin Mary Ellen who was two years older than me "Mary Ellen hold Janice's hand on the way to school".

As the fire alarm sounded my 2nd grade classroom was on the 1st floor very near the front door of the school. We exited with no trouble. We lined up in front of the convent facing the school. I don't recall even seeing smoke. Before long a panicked nun ran up to us telling us to go home. After that I'm told a friend of my Aunt saw me a block from school and wrapped me in a blanket and took me in. I can vaguely recall sitting and looking out her window. I ended up well into the night at my Aunt Carrie's house. Everyone had been found except my brother George who was in 5th grade and Mary Ellen who was in 4th. My Parents and Aunt and Uncle were franticly searching the hospitals. Sometime in the middle of the night they found George. He had jumped from his classroom window. They never found Mary Ellen. The next day my father accepted responsibility to search the morgue. He identified Mary Ellen's body. My beautiful cousin was gone.

My brother George broke the femur bone in his leg and was in the hospital in traction for 6 weeks. He came home in a body cast and spent about another two months in bed in that cast. He never spoke of the horror he must have experienced that day and I never told him how brave I thought he was and how grateful I was that he did what he had to do to save himself that day.

Five children on our block never came home from school that day. Mary Ellen Pettenon, Eileen Pawlik, James Ragona, Valerie Thoma and a little girl named Maria (I didn't know her. Her family had just moved here from Italy). I will never forget them or their families.

It's funny. I can't recall anyone holding my hand on the way to school after that. Somehow after that it didn't matter.


Posted by: john montedore On: 2/12/2003 ID: 62
Enrolled on 12/1/58? Present on 12/1/58? Injured? Age Grade Classroom Teacher
Yes Yes No 12? 7 ? 208 ? ?
what a strange feeling to read all the accounts on this web site.My

Chicago parents alerted me to it here in san francisco. I almost feel

like a amnesiac remembering so little. I do think there's been somewhat of a mental block to the pain at the time. Names ? all i remember as friends are the names Russo, Guzaldo, and jim Sansone. Does anyone remember me ? Strange. Lost in a crowd and a sea of blurred memories. Thank you all for sharing your intimate thoughts and pain. It gives one a sense of history to know where we came from. I do remember jumping at the chance to get away from the whole scene when two reporters asked me and someone else to go to the TV station to tell our story. It got us out of the cold and away from the horror. They told us they would call our parets to let them know where we were. But my parents were out searching in panic till late that nite. Then i felt responsible having to tell them that i lost my right shoe escaping down the main staircase in the dark stampede to get out.

Then feeling happy that we didn't have to attend school and going to

either Ore or Hayes. Can't even remember. I guess it wasn't something i really ever wanted to remember. Until now. At 56 years old.

John Montedore

Four2namio@aol.com.


Posted by: john montedore On: 2/12/2003 ID: 61
Enrolled on 12/1/58? Present on 12/1/58? Injured? Age Grade Classroom Teacher
Yes Yes No 12 7 2nd floor can
Maybe time does erase so much memory. I was one of the two kids who appeared on the nitely news reports with Fahey Flynn and Frank Reynolds.

Can't remember the tv station but after i escaped slowly down the main staircase from the second floor we all ran to the rectory next door to drink water and sooth our coughing. As i had struggled down the very narrow staircase i remember stepping on people who had fallen on the steps. The smoke was so black and thick you couldn't even see the large globe lights on the ceiling, let alone what was in front of you. I was scared to say the least. But the struggle to get down those steps was far from easy. It was sheer panic in total darkness. To make matters worse, about a third of the way down, i lost my right shoe and i struggled to hold back the pushing crowd to feel on the steps for my lost shoe. I remember thinking my parents would be angry if i lost a shoe. But i was quickly pushed along down the stairs by the stampede of

panicked kids. I remember the screeming. i remember the fear and the darkness. After getting water at the rectory we emerged to stand across the street and watch as the building burned and children jumped up to two stories down. Around 3:30 or so two reporters approached a friend and i (i can't remember his name) and asked if we would go to the television station with them to tell our story. We kind of jumped at the chance being the opportunist that i've always been but i do remember sitting in the back seat of their car hopping the reporters weren't two kidnappers. We did one or two interviews then they took my friend and me out to dinner at Tad's Steak House. Then back to the station for a couple of more on air interviews. Meantime my poor parents were scouring the neighborhood, like everyone else, looking for their child. Unfortunately, the television people kept trying to call them on the phone but my parents were out doing door to door until quite late. When they finally returned home late that nite thinking i was was one of the lost souls they received their first phone call from an aunt in San Diego, california who had seen me on the news and told them i was ok. Well eventually i got home that nite to very relieved parents.

To this day i've always considered my self a very lucky guy. Even through the usual stumblin blocks of life. At 56 years old i still count my blessings. My parents now live in Des Plaines and in 1979 i moved just north of the Golden Gate Bridge, San Francisco. The fire did

set up a survival kind of dynamic in my life. I think having that angel on my shoulder that day of the fire kept me believing he'd always be there. So far, so good.

Hello to all my fellow paticipants in our shared tragedy !

John Montedore

e-mail: four2namio@aol.com


Posted by: Chuck On: 2/12/2003 ID: 60
Enrolled on 12/1/58? Present on 12/1/58? Injured? Age Grade Classroom Teacher
Yes Yes No 11 7 201 Sister Mary Andrienne
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Posted by: Patti On: 2/11/2003 ID: 59
At OLA on 12/1/58? Born before or after 12/1/58? Where Lived on 12/1/58?
No Before